This morning, we read Harry Crossgrove’s favorite scripture: Ecclesiastes 3. Harry has a beautiful voice and loves to sing, and this scripture is familiar to us because it is part of a song made famous by the Byrds: “Turn! Turn! Turn! – To Everything There is a Season.” This scripture is probably the most familiar portion of the Old Testament Book of Ecclesiastes. Although this book has traditionally been attributed to King Solomon, many English translations of the book begin with: “The words of Kohelet, a son of David, king in Jerusalem.” Scholars think Kohelet means “the teacher” and so many commentaries about this book refer to the author as “the teacher.”
Listen now to these familiar words as Harry reads Ecclesiastes Chapter three, verses one through fifteen:
The Scripture Lesson Ecclesiastes 3:1-15
1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:
2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,
4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
6 a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7 a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8 a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.
9 What do workers gain from their toil?
10 I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race.
11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
12 I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live.
13 That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.
14 I know that everything God does will endure forever; nothing can be added to it and nothing taken from it. God does it so that people will fear him.
15 Whatever is has already been, and what will be has been before; and God will call the past to account.
Amen.
Let us pray….
The Message God Meets Us Exactly Where We Are
When I was in my mid-twenties, I had a few months to prepare to leave St. Louis before I moved to Pennsylvania and began serving my first church as their pastor. One weekend afternoon, my mother and friend from high school, Jen, came along with me to Burlington Coat Factory to help me purchase clothing for my first professional job. We headed to the part of the story I was familiar with….the Juniors Department. And, I tried on a few things, but nothing looked right. Finally, my mother gently told me I was too old to wear Juniors clothing – the clothing was designed, and cut, for teenagers. I needed to head to the women’s department…..I wasn’t a junior anymore.
So, that’s what we did….I picked out and tried on…and bought…clothing from the women’s department. And, that is what I wore to my first church when I served them as their pastor.
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens…including your season to wear Juniors clothing.
Our reading from Ecclesiastes is focused on how everything in life has a proper time – Each season of life has a beginning and an end and each season also has a purpose. As much as we want to have control over our lives, and the season of life we are in, only God has control over time.
The first part of our reading is the familiar poem we know from the song: 14 pairs of opposites. The pairs focus on the full spectrum of human experience – the pleasant, the painful and the ordinary. This scripture was probably written two-thousand four hundred years ago, yet it still describes universal themes and realities in our 21st century lives: we have all been born and we will all die; we will break things and build things; we will be healthy and we will be ill; we will learn and grow and we will forget; we will be sad and we will be joyful; we will have times when we shouldn’t speak and times when we shouldn’t be quiet. Each opposite is true – we will all experience these realities over the course of our lives – there is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.
Sometimes, we try to fight the season we are in – we look back at our pasts and want to recreate them in our present. Sometimes, we linger or obsess over what used to be – we want to go backwards instead of forwards in time. We get nostalgic about how the world was during our childhood, or how great a romantic relationship was before a break up, or how wonderful a job was before we left it – even if we didn’t like the job while we were doing it. Sometimes, we spend a lot of energy dwelling on the past or on ‘what could have been.’
Ecclesiastes 3 reminds us that every season of life has an expiration date. And, we shouldn’t mourn or regret the season we have exit-ed. We are just in a different season now…for the time being. Each season has advantages and disadvantages.
God meets us in whichever season we are in. So, there is no point in trying to get over things prematurely or trying to hurry through a season. Sometimes, we see children trying to appear older than they are – a 6 year old who wants to dress like a teenager – a 14 year old who tries to look 21 with extra make-up or revealing clothing ... .they are so young they fail to realize how obvious their attempt to look older seems to adults. God wants us to savor the season we are in….to work to accept, and possibly find joy, in the season we are experiencing. There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.
We don’t know who the writer of the book of Ecclesiastes was – we just know he had a lot of questions about why we are alive and what the purpose of life is – what is the meaning of life. He seemed to think everything was cyclical – each person’s life will cycle through good times and bad times, times of joy and times of suffering until we reach the end of our days. He wrote that only God understands eternity…and God’s plan for us, for humanity is so intricate, so complicated, it is unfathomable for us lowly people.
Some of the questions the Teacher, the writer of Ecclesiastes, asked were answered by Jesus Christ. In Ecclesiastes it says that each thing happens at its appointed time…In Galatians 4, Paul writes: “But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, 5 to redeem those under the law, that we might receive adoption to sonship.” Jesus’ arrival on earth came at the time appointed by God. Jesus came to earth to help us understand God’s plan for the world and how God wants us to treat other people.
The Teacher, the writer of Ecclesiastes, suggested that because we can’t control time, or the stage of life we are in, then we should “be happy and do good while we live.” Easier said than done. Jesus didn’t tell us our ultimate goal in life is just to “be happy.” Instead, Jesus gave us more clear guidelines – We are commanded to Love God and Love Other People, including strangers, as much as we love ourselves. We are called to love our enemies. We are called to forgive others and not to judge other people hypocritically. We are called to be humble and to work to reconcile with people with whom we have disagreements. Jesus told us that following him, and living out his teachings, would be difficult….we may face trials and persecution for being Christians…but that God loves and blesses us, and we must endeavor to bless and love others as much as we can.
Ecclesiastes 3 reminds us to be patient. We can’t change the past….we can’t recreate the past in the present. There is an order to life that we cannot control. But, we must endeavor to do all we can to serve God and live out the teachings of Jesus.
John Westley, one of the founders of Methodism, said;
“Do all the good you can, By all the means you can, In all the ways you can, In all the places you can, At all the times you can, To all the people you can, As long as ever you can.”
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens. Let us work to incorporate doing good, loving God, and helping other people into each and every season in our lives.
May it be so, today and all days. Amen.



