Tuesday, May 11, 2021

Friends Together -- A Message from May 9, 2021

 


In this season of Easter, our scripture readings have jumped around the Gospel of John.  Today, we return to the Last Supper of Jesus and his Disciples, the meal and conversation Jesus had with his friends on the eve of his arrest and death on the cross.  Although the Disciples were ignorant, Jesus knew what was about to happen to him….he knew he would be betrayed by Judas, arrested, put on trial, and killed.  So, it was important to Jesus to emphasize his most essential teachings for his friends.  He needed his friends to carry on his work after Jesus ascended to heaven, so Jesus shared several final teachings or commands with the Disciples gathered at the Last Super. 

Hear Jesus words as they were recorded in the Gospel of John, Chapter 15, verses nine through seventeen:

Scripture Reading                        John 15: 9-17

 “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love. 

If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. 

I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. 

My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 

Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. 

You are my friends if you do what I command. 

I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. 

You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. 

This is my command: Love each other.

Prayer for Understanding

Lord, we long for your wisdom and truth. Send your Holy Spirit to guide us as we listen. Prepare our ears to hear your Word and our hearts to receive it. Amen.   

            My mother spent most of her career as a medical social worker.  After several years working in a maternity unit, she moved to working with dialysis patients.  Almost 500,000 Americans undergo regular dialysis treatments because they have kidney failure…this means we either already know people who are receiving dialysis treatments or we will know people who will have dialysis. 

            My mother became a big advocate for the National Kidney Foundation while she was working with dialysis patients.  The National Kidney Foundation offers trainings for staff people who work in dialysis units. They educate patients. They do research on treatments for kidney disease.  And, they recruit and educate potential kidney donors.

Sometimes, people who have kidney failure qualify for a transplant of a donor kidney so they are able to live without dialysis treatment.  In our scripture reading this morning, Jesus said: “Greater love has no one that this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” On the National Kidney Foundation’s website, there are several testimonies from people who chose to donate kidneys.  Some people donate kidneys to people they don’t know. Some people donate kidneys to acquaintances. Some people donate kidneys to family members. Some people donate kidneys to friends.

One of the newest testimonies came from Austin Gray.  Austin took a break from being an American Ninja Warrior to donate a kidney to his childhood friend Kaylee.  In his testimony, Aaron said that there are…”100,000 American waiting for a kidney donation, and there are also another 100,000 Americans who would give a kidney if they knew about the need.”

Jesus told his disciples to love one another.  He wanted them to remember that he was more than their teacher. He was more than their master. Jesus was their friend.  And, as their friend, he loved them. And, they were supposed to love each other no matter what happened.

When Jesus was at the Last Supper, he knew his friends were about to be plummeted into a terrible, tragic season of their lives. Jesus would be killed.  And, although he would be resurrected, he wasn’t going to stay on earth forever to guide them.  Jesus knew as the church developed, the disciples were going to undergo stress and persecution.  Some of them would be martyred.  They would argue about how to lead the new church. Despite their differences, the disciples would need to love each other above everything else. 

We experience this in our own families.  We sometimes have trouble loving each other when stressful situations arise. Pressure is put on relationships as we work to provide care for older relatives and children.  Pressure is put on relationships if a family member loses their job or the family moves into a new home.  When we are stressed, it is difficult for us to get along.  We have to first and foremost love each other.

            Jesus called his disciples his “friends.”  The disciples probably had moments when they struggled to work together.  They probably didn’t always feel like the best of “Friends” with each other. They probably had occasions when they struggled to love each other. 

            In our own church, and in all Christian congregations, we are called to be “friends” with each other.  This is not an easy assignment.  Very diverse people are part of each congregation.  We have a mandate to welcome everyone to join us in our church, which means the people who join us may be very different from each other.  We sometimes have to “work” on being friends which each other, because we become brothers and sisters in Christ with people we perhaps would not have picked to be friends with in our non-church life.

            I kind of think about like the cafeteria in a stereotypical high school…at each table sits a different clique – the football players at one, the cheerleaders at another; the kids who play in the marching band and the drama kids who act in the plays; the art kids and the stoner kids; the soccer players and the video gamers; the kids who are goth and dress in all black and the kids who are punk with spikey green hair; the kids who are going to be the next Jeff Bezos and the kids who are going to be the next Lady Gagas; the kids in ROTC and the kids who are into hunting.  So, in churches, we take a kid or two from each table and bring them together to worship God and work together to share the love of God with our neighbors. This is wonderful, because no matter who you are or where you are on life’s journey, you are welcome here.  And, this can also lead to a few minor hiccups, because it is sometimes difficult to love people who are very, very different than we are.

            Part of our work in loving each other is to give generously to each other.  Jesus said, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” So, not only are we challenged to love each other, but we are challenged to have the greatest type of love – sacrificial love.   We love other people and expect nothing in return. We give and don’t expect to get. We share things and aren’t angry if they are not returned.  We are generous not because we get something out of it but we are responding to the generous love of God to us.  God forgives us and loves us and we can’t reciprocate that love to God. We are the beneficiaries of God’s love and grace to us, and we are called to share love and grace to other people. 

            Today is Mother’s Day Sunday. This is a day when we appreciate the women who have been nurturers to us and to our wider community.  Some women nurture by being traditional mothers. And, many more women are nurturers by the love and compassion they extend to all people….people in their families and people in their communities.  This is the day we thank women who nurture – aunts, godmothers, Sunday school teachers, classroom volunteers, school teachers, nurses, babysitters, lunch room ladies, and moms. We thank the women who have loved us and loved the children in our community.  And, as we work to live out the love of Jesus, we appreciate the women who have been examples of Jesus’ love to us. 

            Let us work to love like Jesus.  May it be so. Amen.


** Artwork is "Messanger of sympathy & love, servant of parted friends, consoler of the lonely, bond of the scattered family, enlarger of the common life" by Eubene Francis Savage**

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